About a week ago I had this thought that pounded in my head, You Are Enough! So what did I do? I did what any red-blooded Payment Princess would do I made a video about comparisons being the killer of dreams. After making it I had a brief moment of bravery and posted it on Facebook! This brief moment of bravery came because I needed my rant to be heard. I really needed it validated and I didn’t have anybody to call at the moment. You know what I am talking about sometimes we all have something inside us that really needs to get out.
So, I figured who better to rant to then my favorite Facebook family. And that’s what happened. I quickly started receiving some messages. This video was speaking to my tribe and the feedback was how it helped them, it was what they needed to hear, and y’all, it just made me realize something.
You just have to do you and be 100% ok with that.
I am not saying it’s easy. But every time you see your competitors nipping at your heals or someone is living their best life all over social media and you think that should be you!!!
Stop the comparison and remember you are enough and you are here on this earth for a reason and it is not someone’s path it is your own!
Just remember that you are doing ENOUGH of what you need to do to make your best life come true.
I know that I have people that see my actions and want to “do life” with me, guess what, they’re doing life with me even if they don’t know it. But isn’t that wonderful that no matter what the competition is doing in business or in life that when you are your authentic self the people that are supposed to be in your corner will be NO MATTER WHAT!
So who cares if the competition gets three accounts this week? Who cares that they get five new customers next week? This is when I have to just say to myself I still have my people that love me! My tribe IS going to help encourage me and as a result, help my business grow. I am who I am and these people love me for that. Thank God!
What a sense of freedom this brings! What a blessing to know that I get to do life on my terms with my circle, my tribe, my business partners, and yes, my beautiful family. We all need to take a moment to be genuinely thankful they are here every day telling me us we can’t give up, letting us share, and receive inspiration to keep “being our best selves”!
Our community has more walls than bridges. We know that everyone is just trying to make a living and get along the best we know how. So think about this, sometimes the best you know how isn’t the same as someone else’s best. We are all different. How boring would life be if we were all the same?
One of my dearest friends said it best,
I do not expect others to have my drive.
I’M on a path of my own choosing and making.
What’s right for me isn’t always possible for others.
We can still be great friends! ~Kristi Kirkland
I guarantee if you’re up every day, and you’re striving to be a better version, even when you slip you are still better off than you were the day before! Guess what? That is enough! Just keep doing that, keep doing YOU, everyday just take a step forward even if it is one step.
Thank you, for visiting my page and sharing in my thoughts, it is my hope that my words resonated with you and helped you find an inner peace we all need and deserve.
Jennifer Burke aka The Payment Princess